الرجال من المريخ.. النساء من الزهرة!

رغم أنني سمعت الكثير عن هذا الكتاب وقرأت حوله أكثر من عشرة عروض وتقارير إلا أنني لم أستطع إقناع نفسي أن الوقت قد حان لقرائته.. وكنت أنوي ألا أقرأه أساساً، لكن الجدل الكبير الذي أثاره هذا الكتاب في المجتمعات الغربية أكثر منه في العربية هو ما يدعو للاهتمام به ويفرض علينا أن نتحدث عنه قليلاً..  

  

الكتاب هو من أكثر الكتب مبيعا على مستوى العالم 

 تأليف د/ جون غراي
ترجمة د/ حمود الشريف
ويدور حول مدى الاختلاف بين تفكير الرجل والمرأة 
المحور الاساسي لهذا الاختلاف يكمن بحسب الكاتب في أن الرجل لا ينصت وأن المرأة مدمنة نصح!! وينطلق من خلال ذلك إجابة للسؤال: لماذا يتشاجر النساء والرجال؟ الكتاب يقع في 402 صفحة مليئة بالتجارب وفيه قاموس لكل ردة فعل من المرأة وكيف يفهمها الرجل وكل ردة فعل من الرجل وكيف تفهمها المرأة 

طبعاً ما جعلني استنتج أن هذا الكتاب لا يتحدث عن المشكلة نفسها التي يعاني منها البيت العربي وهي الخصام الواضح بين حياة الرجل الشرقي والمرأة الشرقية    

 الغريب أيضا أن الكتاب اعتبر أن الرجل هو من المريخ (هذا الكوكب البارد الكبير البعيد من الشمس) فيما اعتبر أن المرأة من الزهرة (وهو كوكب صغير يكاد يذوب من حرارة الشمس) وأعتقد أن هذا التشبيه ينطبق ربما علي وعلى فلان كرجل عربي ولكن ليس على كل الرجال الشرقيين وهذا الأمر واثق منه كل الثقة!!

ففي رأيي أن بيت القصيد الذي يبدأ منه الكتاب تحليله للمسألة غير متوفر بشكل رئيسي في البيت العربي وإن وجد فهو نادر الأساس يكمن في أن الرجل يفصل حياته الشخصية عن حياته مع أسرته وأن المرأة الشرقية تدور في محيط محدود من الاهتمامات (واسمحوا لي أن اعتبر أن معظمها سطحي أو على الأقل نابع عن عاطفة لا يحكمها عقل)  لكن لم نستبق الأحداث؟؟ أعتقد أن الحكم على الكتاب لا يكتمل إلا بتجربة شخصية معه    

 أنصحكم باقتناء الكتاب كاملا فلا أجمل من تقرأ كتابا تتصفحه بيديك وتجالسه

لكنني على كل حال وجدت نسخة الكترونية منه …أضعه لكم لتقرأوه معي فقد بدأت اليوم بقرائته   marsmen.zip  

  

 

 

محمد الهاشمي

About محمد الهاشمي

إعلامي،شاعر،كاتب من الإمارات ،بتخصص إدارة وسياسات ثقافية، مهتم بالشؤون المحلية والخليجية والعربية، وحوار الثقافات والأديان. عمل مذيعا ومقدما للتلفزيون بين ٢٠٠٠-٢٠١٢، وشارك شاعرا في عديد الأمسيات

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